When being personable it can be easy to know when someone is feeling uncomfortable and when someone is feeling at ease.
It is important to feel the pulse of your guests so you can adjust or support accordingly. That are times you may need to step in to counterbalance someone else’s energy, or times you may just need to take a step back and relish the beautiful connections that are happening.
An example of counterbalancing an energy would be:
You may have a really outspoken guest who is strongly sharing their beliefs or their spiritual practices. If you see that other guests may be uneasy or feel that they are being “preached” to, then it is important to counter balance that energy to keep those particular guests at ease.
You can counter balance by changing the subject or, if you find that difficult to do, then you can subtly start a private conversation with the person you suspect may be uncomfortable.
Asking questions about someone’s life is a way to make them feel comfortable because most people like to speak about where they are at or what they have done. A simple light-energy dialogue can be the key to make someone feel at home